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Is it that beautiful girl you want to ask her out for a date, or cute co-worker whom you always wanted one chance. You get courage and come up with cheesy pick up the line to ask out. You are planning and planning, making a perfect scenario in your head to have that one moment come true. Your friends, family, and sibling gave you courage to finally asked the person out. What if, a special person has the same feeling. It's special moment if the answer is YES!
The first phase of beautiful and courageous step completed. Now come real hard part where you should impress the person. Dress to Impress, and impress enough to get the second date. But there are few thing and rule you have to follow, to make the first date into a relationship. Otherwise, you will never get a chance to go to the second date.
The thing to do on the First Date.
What to wear on the first date?
Things to wear on the first date for girls can be simple, but unique. Girls have different variety and choice to wear clothes. The choice for girl’s outfit ranging from dress, long shirts, jumpers, rompers and plain jeans. They can wear anything, the key thing to keep in mind to make things simple and match the outfit with purse and shoes. The color combination for outfit shouldn't be too dark or eye catchy, wear light color and something which is according to the season. As far as clothing, wear something which makes you comfortable and enjoyable, don't try too hard or make an extra effort; it will be obvious. Trying new thing on the first date can be tricky if it doesn't come out as you planned, then your concentration would be on fixing your outfit rather than enjoying your first romantic and special moment.
The thing to wear on the first date for boy and guys, it can be confusing for guys. Remember guys, just because she said yes to you because of your humor or courage, it doesn't mean you have won the girl's, heart. Girls are very picky on guys dressing and appearance, they like to see a person who they are dating to be fashionable and know how to carry themselves in public. Girls don't like mama boys or someone who just woke up from sleep and came to his first date. Wash and use an 110v electric clothes dryer to dry your clothes, beforehand. Phrase “Dress to impress” apply to you guys, and pay special attention what you decide to wear on the first date. Try to wear a dark color, and nothing sparking or dull color. Cotton shirt and plain pants would work, but don't show up in suit and tie; its date with a girl not a business interview. Do shower, and polish and clean your shoes, and take special care of your hygiene as girls prefer those who are clean and take care of themselves. If you like to wear jeans and T-shirt, wear something plain and nothing offensive written or printed on T-shirt. Remember don't try to overload yourself with extra clothing, but make sure things which you actually matched and look good on you. Must wear “clean and washed clothes, something which doesn't smell”
Perfume for girls and boys
The way you smell can make a huge impact and leave a long-lasting impression. Something which attracts a person, how they smell as it directly hit and stores in your brain. There is a different variety of perfume for guys and girls, and use them in different occasion. There are lots of brand of perfume to choose such as All Men's, Calvin Klein, CHANEL, Dior, Diesel, Giorgio Armani, Gucci, HUGO BOSS. Please..Please...Please take shower and wear a clean dress, and use the perfume you usually wear, maybe try a little bit more, but don't use a lot of perfume that your date can't breathe or may be a person is allergic to certain kind of perfume. It's always better to go with simple and light perfume. Use mouth freshener as well.
Simple, but unique Gift
I always believe that taking small gift is the sign of good token and gesture. Who doesn't love gift? Gifts can be anything from chocolate or roses for the girl on the first date. Bring something not so expensive, so that you don't creep out the other person. Remember, it's your first date, not romantic honeymoon with your partner. Bringing gift is good but try to be extra careful what you bring to date.
Fancy restaurant or luxurious hotel for romantic date
That's a tricky question to answer, where to take your special one for dinner. Always check your budget and pocket before taking the girl out for dinner. You may impress them with the fancy hotel by beach side view, but on second date you should maintain that standard. You are trying to get and impress the girl of your dream not “Gold Digger”. It's important that you show the eating manner and order less, so you can concentration on talking and spend a quality moment with them. It will also give the opportunity to save some space in the stomach. Don't rush while eating, and take small bites. Always be kind to the waiter, smile and give tips; as it will give a good impression to your partner.
Who should pay for a date?
Let's just say, traditionally its expected for guys to pay for dinner, but if a girl wants to pay her half then let her pay. Don't force her to pay or give a full share, it will come off as rude, egoistic and control.
Close the perfect first date with a hug and walk her to her car or cab, wait till she leaves. Alway text sweet message like “It was nice meeting you, hope to see you soon again”
The first date is not difficult; you just have to play it safe and smart. Another person is as nervous as you are.
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